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I rejected my blind date 3 times and he STILL won't take the hint ๐Ÿ’€

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This post is going viral because it hits every nerve of the Korean blind date experience โ€” the workplace power dynamics, the guy who reframes rejection as progress, and the matchmaker boss who gets fed misinformation. The detail about him calling a 7-line KakaoTalk message 'a letter' is sending everyone.

์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”

์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ๋„์›€์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ด

์ด๊ณณ์— ๊ธ€์„ ์˜ฌ๋ ธ์–ด์š”

์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์„ค๋ช… ํ•˜์ž๋ฉด

์ง์žฅ ์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„์ด ์ฃผ์„ ํ•˜์…จ์–ด์š”

์ฒ˜์Œ์—” ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ–ˆ์–ด์š”

์ž˜๋˜๋ฉด ์ข‹๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ

์•ˆ ๋  ํ™•๋ฅ ์ด ๋” ๋†’์€๊ฒŒ ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…์ด๊ณ 

์ฃผ์„ ์ž๊ฐ€ ์ง์žฅ์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„ ์ด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ์š”

๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ค ๋ฉฐ์น  ํ›„

๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ฐฅ ํ•œ๋ผ ํŽธํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋จน๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋‹ด๊ฐ–์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๊ณ 

ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ๋” ๊ถŒํ•˜์‹œ๊ธฐ์— ์Šน๋‚™ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”

์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„์ด ํšŒ์‚ฌ์—์„œ

ํ‰๋„ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์œผ์„ธ์š”

๊ฒŒ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ์–ต์šธํ•œ ์ผ๋กœ ๊ณค๋ž€ํ•œ์ ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ

์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„ ๋„์›€์œผ๋กœ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ๋œ ์  ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ ์š”

์œ ์œ ์ƒ์ข… ์ด๋‹ˆ ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ๋ณด์ž ํ•œ๊ฑด๋ฐ..

(๋ด‰์‚ฌ๋ชจ์ž„์—์„œ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ๊ณ  ์„ฑ์‹คํ•˜๊ณ  ์ฐฉํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”)

์ € 30 ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ 35

์ €๋„ 162๋กœ ํฐ ํ‚ค๋Š” ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ

ํฐ๋‚จ์ž๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ์ง„ ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ

ํ‚ค๊ฐ€ 167 ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•˜๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”

ํ‚ค๋†’์ด ๊ตฌ๋‘๋ฅผ ์‹ ๊ณ  ๋‚˜์™”๋Š”๋ฐ

๊ฑธ์„ ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค ๋ถˆํŽธํ•ด์„œ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ์ง€ ์งˆ์งˆ๋Œ๊ณ  ์ €๋ฒ…์ €๋ฒ… ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์‹ ๊ฒฝ์ด ๋‹ค ์“ฐ์ด๋Š”๋ฐ ๋ณธ์ธ์€ ์˜ค์ฃฝํ• ๊นŒ ์‹ถ๊ณ 

์Šคํƒ€์ผ์—์„œ ์–ด๋А์ •๋„ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์„ฑํ–ฅ์ด ๋ฌป์–ด ๋‚œ๋‹ค๊ณ 

์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”

๋”ฑ๋ถ™๋Š” ์ฒญ๋ฐ”์ง€์™€ ์…”์ธ ์— ๋ช…ํ’ˆ ๋กœ๊ณ  ๋ฒจํŠธ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ 

๋จธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์†Œ๋ผ๋นตํŒŒ๋งˆ๋ฅผ ํ•ด์„œ

๋‚˜ํ•˜๊ณ ๋Š” ๋งž์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒ ๋‹ค ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ 

์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด์„œ ์ตœ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์˜ˆ์˜์žˆ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ณ 

์ง‘์— ์™€์„œ ์ข‹์€์ธ์—ฐ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์‹œ๋ผ๊ณ  ๊ฑฐ์ ˆ์˜์‚ฌ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”

๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ

์†Œ๊ฐœ๋‚จ์ด ์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„ ์ž…์žฅ๋„ ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ

๋‘๋ฒˆ ๋” ๋งŒ๋‚˜์ž๊ณ  ํ•˜๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”

๋ถ€๋‹ด ๊ฐ–์ง€๋ง๊ณ  ์นœ๊ตฌ ์‚ฌ๊ท„๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐ ํ•˜๋ผ๊ณ 

์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„๊ณผ ๋™๋ฃŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์›Œํฌ์ƒต์—์„œ ์ฐ์€ ์‚ฌ์ง„๋ณด๊ณ 

์„ธ๋‹ฌ์„ ์กธ๋ผ์„œ ๊ฒจ์šฐ ์†Œ๊ฐœ ๋ฐ›์€๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ 

ํ•˜๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”

๊ทธ ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ• ๊ฒƒ์„..

๋ฉ‹์ฉ์–ด ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๋ง๊บผ๋‚ธ ์ƒ์‚ฌ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด์„œ

๋‘๋ฒˆ ๋” ๋งŒ๋‚˜ ๋ณด๊ธฐ๋กœ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”

๋งŒ๋‚˜๋ฉด์„œ ๋”์šฑ ์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ๋Š” ์•„๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์‹ถ์—ˆ์–ด์š”

์•„์žฌ๊ฐœ๊ทธ ๋ณ„๋กœ ์•ˆ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ

์ž๊พธ ๋‚จ๋ฐœํ•˜๊ณ ใ… 

์ข‹๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ์ž๊ฒฉ์ง€์‹ฌ ์—†์ด ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ณ 

๋‚˜์˜๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทผ์ž๊ฐ์ด ์‹ฌํ•œใ… 

๋Š˜ ๊ณผ์žฅ ๋œ ๋งํˆฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”

(์ด๊ฑด ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์˜ˆ๋ฏผํ•˜๊ณ  ๊นŒํƒˆ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”)

์ผ์š”์ผ์— ๋ญํ–ˆ๋ƒ?

๋ณธ์ธ์€ ๊ณต๋ถ€ ํ•˜๋А๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ฐ”๋นด๋‹ค

ํƒœ์–‘๊ด‘ ํˆฌ์ž์— ๊ด€์‹ฌ์žˆ์–ด์„œ

ํƒœ์–‘๊ด‘ ๊ณต๋ถ€๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค

์•Œ๊ณ ๋ณด๋‹ˆ ์ง€ํ”ผํ‹ฐ์— ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด๊ณ 

๋‹ต๊ธ€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค์˜€๊ณ 

00์”จ ํ•œํ…Œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ํŽธ์ง€ ์จ์คฌ์ž–์•„์š”~

๊ทธ ํŽธ์ง€ ์–ด์ฉŒ๊ณ  ์ €์ฉŒ๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ

์–˜๊ธฐ ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ

์นดํ†ก 7์ค„ ๋ฉ”์„ธ์ง€ ๋ณด๋‚ธ ๊ฒƒ..

์ด๊ฑธ ํŽธ์ง€ ์จ์คฌ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ

์—ด๋ณ€ ํ•  ์ผ์ธ๊ฐ€?ใ…Ž

๊ทธ๋งˆ์ €๋„ ๋งž์ถค๋ฒ• ํŒŒ๊ดด ๋œใ…Ž

๊ทธ ์™ธ์—๋„ ๋ณธ์ธ ์ž์‚ฐ์–˜๊ธฐ ํž˜๋“ค๊ฒŒ ์‚ด์•„์˜จ ์–˜๊ธฐ

๊ฐ€์กฑ์‚ฌ ์„ฑ๊ณต๋‹ด ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์—ฐ์• ..

์•Œ๊ณ  ์ง€๋‚ธ์ง€ 2์ฃผ ๋ฐ–์— ์•ˆ ๋๋Š”๋ฐ

์ž์‹ ์˜ ํŒจ๋ฅผ ๋‹ค ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š”๊ฒƒ๋„ ๋ณ„๋กœ๋ผ๊ณ 

์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์–ด์š”

๋งฅ๋ฝ์ƒ ๊ฑฐ์ง“๋ง ๊ณผ์žฅ๋„ ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ ์š”

์„ธ๋ฒˆ ๋‹ค ๋ณด๊ณ 

์ตœ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์‹ฌ๊ฒฝ ๋ณต์žกํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ

์‹ฌํ”Œํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”

๊ทธ๋žฌ๋”๋‹ˆ

์ œ๊ฐ€ ์™ธ๋ชจ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๋‹ค ๋ง˜์— ์•ˆ ๋“ค์—ˆ๋˜๊ฑฐ์ฃ 

์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”

๊ทธ๋ž˜๋„ ์˜ˆ์˜์žˆ๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ด์š”

ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ๊ณ„์† ๋ณธ์ธ ์ž์ฑ…์„ ํ•ด์š”

์ฐจ๋ผ๋ฆฌ

์ž๊ฒฉ์ง€์‹ฌ ํญ๋ฐœํ•ด์„œ ์ €๋ฅผ ๋””์Šคํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‚˜์ด๊ณต๊ฒฉํ•˜๊ณ 

๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ์ €๋„ ์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„๊ป˜ ํ•  ๋ง์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ..

์นœํ•œ ์ง€์ธ์‚ฌ์ด ๋ผ๋„

์ง€๋‚ด๋ฉด ์•ˆ๋˜๊ฒ ๋ƒ ํ•˜๊ธธ๋ž˜ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆ ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ

์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ถœ๊ทผํ•˜๋‹ˆ

์นดํ†ก์ด ์™”์–ด์š”

์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„๊ป˜์„œ ๋‘˜์ด ๊ฐ™์ด ๋ณด๋ผ๊ณ 

๊ณต์—ฐํ‹ฐ๊ฒŸ ์ฃผ์…จ๋‹ค๊ณ 

๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ฐ™์ด ํŽธํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ณต์—ฐ๋งŒ ๋ณด๋ฉด ์•ˆ๋˜๊ฒ ๋ƒ๊ณ 

์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„๊ป˜

๊ณต์—ฐํ‹ฐ์ผ“ ์ฃผ์…จ๋ƒ๊ณ 

ํ•˜๋‹ˆ๊นŒ

๊ทธ์ œ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ๋Š”๋ฐ ์ž˜ ๋ผ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉฐ~

์ด๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด์„œ ๊ธฐ๋ปํ•˜์‹œ๋Š”๋ฐ

์ด๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ธ์ง€..

์†Œ๊ฐœ๋‚จ์ด

์ž˜ ๋˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ณผ์žฅํ•ด์„œ ๋ง ํ–ˆ๋‚˜๋ด์š”

์ง์žฅ ์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„๊ป˜๋Š”

๋ญ๋ผ ์„ค๋ช…์„ ํ•ด์•ผํ•˜๋Š”์ง€

์ƒ์‚ฌ๋ถ„๊ป˜์„œ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„ ๋‚˜๋น ํ•˜์ง„ ์•Š์œผ์‹ค์ง€

๊ฑฑ์ •๋ผ์š”

๋ฐ”์˜์‹ ๋ฐ

๊ธด ๊ธ€ ์ฝ์–ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ

๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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